Monday, April 7, 2025

A Very Human Need


John 12:1-8

Lent 5 / Year C 

“Mary took a pound of costly perfume made of pure nard and anointed Jesus’ feet.” 

A little background on nard.  It comes from the root of a plant in the honeysuckle family which only grows in the Himalayas at an altitude roughly between 10,000-15,000 feet above sea level.  Its roots, when crushed and distilled, form a thick, amber-colored oil with a very pungent, musky aroma.  In biblical times this product was used to scent perfume, included in recipes, and added to wine.  In addition, it was an herbal medicine used to treat a wide variety of health conditions, everything from insomnia to depression to wound care.  And because it had such a powerful, lingering fragrance, it was used in the burial process to mask the odor of decay.  Rare and expensive at the time, we are blessed to live in an age when you can purchase pure nard on Amazon as an oil, an air freshener, and even as a roll on starting at $11.99 on up.

In John’s gospel, Mary’s action, like most every other event he records, is deeply symbolic.  Jesus himself sees it as foreshadowing of own burial which is less than a week away.  But, as with the other signs, what holds deep significance also has a very practical, very human purpose.  The water turned to wine at Cana signals new life, but it is also a basic staple of a celebration. The water at the well in Samaria points to the living water Jesus makes available through the Spirit, but is also a refreshing drink at the noon hour on a blistering day.  The wine and bread at the Last Supper represent Christ’s body and blood, but at a fundamental level provides nourishment to a group of hungry people.   

Mary’s action addresses a very human need.  Jesus’ feet are dirty.  They ache.  They may have bruises or blisters or abrasions.  Taken at this level, what she does is thoughtful and kind.  It is a kind of grace, unneeded and yet much appreciated.  It is just one of those things which makes life easier to bear by easing a little bit of another person’s burden.  You never know when a simple act offered at just the right time will be for another an enormous source of relief and encouragement in the struggle which is life.

I do not consider myself to be the most attentive, situationally aware of the needs of others kind of person, but there are times when I do pick up on something and find myself inspired to act; and yes, I use the word ‘inspired’ intentionally because the impulse to do a specific thing to help another most often comes ‘to’ me, not from ‘within’ me.  Pilgrimages helped me with this.  I tended to finish each day’s walk before many in our group and, after resting a bit, I often backtracked (particularly on the long, difficult days) to welcome in those who, unaware, were closing in on the day’s destination, saying, “You are almost there!”  It was a small gesture, but always appreciated.

Mary’s gesture is much deeper than this.  In the culture at the time, her action speaks of humility, devotion, and service; with perhaps devotion being most significant to her.  Jesus had healed her father Simon of leprosy.  She sat at Jesus’ feet and listened to him teach while her sister Martha stewed in the kitchen.  And, after her brother Lazarus had been in the grave for several days, Jesus brought him back to life.  Yes, she is deeply devoted to Jesus and is keenly attuned to his needs.  The nard must have felt luxurious as she applied it to his feet.  And more than one commentator suggests its scent would have lingered long enough for Jesus to sense it even as he hung on the cross. 

In Mary we have a model of thoughtfulness and selflessness, sacrificing an alabaster jar of expensive nard which some commentators posit was a dowry, others a retirement investment.  And a good sermon might end with the preacher encouraging listeners to be like Mary, maybe even pointing out whatever act of compassion you offer to another you extend to Jesus as well.  It is a lesson worth keeping in mind to be sure.

But what does Jesus model for us to emulate?  He shows us what it is like to be human – to be physically tired, to be sore to the core, to be done in by the demands of the daily round.  He is aware of how he feels and receptive to an effort to ease what ails him.  He embraces the ministry of another’s care because he, like us, has physical needs.  

Throughout Lent we have been focusing on the metaphor of pilgrimage.  To see yourself as a pilgrim is to acknowledge life begins, continues, and ends in God.  Of the three, continues is the most challenging.  From time to time, we find ourselves physically spent, emotionally drained, and spiritually dry.  Jesus knows this because he knew it in his own life.  He willingly accepted Mary’s thoughtful and compassionate act.  His posture invites us to welcome gladly the grace others extend.  And it reminds us to seek refreshment at the Lord’s Table, where our Heavenly Companion offers us a balm which lingers long to meet our every need.