Monday, May 19, 2025

The Parable of Love

 


John 13:31-35

Easter 5 / Year C

Jesus said, “Love one another just as I have loved you.” (John 13:34)

Michael Curry, when he served as the Presiding Bishop of our church, often told audiences he had set one modest goal for his nine-year term in office.  He wanted to make sure every Episcopalian memorized at least one verse from the bible and could recite it chapter and verse.  Then he launched into this:

· Repeat after me: “I John”… “I John”, we all said.

· “chapter 4, verse 8”… “chapter 4, verse 8.”

· “God”… “God”

· “is”… “is”

· ‘love.”… “love”.

Then he would have us put it all together… “I John, chapter 4, verse 8: God is love.”  See, now you too have memorized a verse from the bible.  Practice it every day and make sure to quote it to you Baptist friends.  Not only will they be impressed, they might even wonder what has gotten into you!

When John writes “God is love,” he is using love as a noun.  When he records the words of Jesus saying, “Love one another as I have loved you,” he is using love as a verb in the imperative form.  God is love, not love as in the intense feeling we associate with falling in love (which we can also fall out of), but something else.  The Oxford English Dictionary has twenty-four different entries for love when it is used in the form of a noun, but none gives a fully satisfactory description for what the word means when it is used to describe God’s character and nature.

While we may not be able to come up with a good definition, we Christians can point to the definitive example.  We Christians hold the clearest, most authentic demonstration of God’s love is found in the person of Jesus.  St. Paul put it best when he wrote to the church in Colossae, Jesus “is the visible image of the invisible God.” (1:15)  So, when Jesus says to his disciples “Love one another just as I have loved you,” he is saying they are to manifest in their lives God’s true nature as he himself has made it known through his words and deeds.

To understand better how Jesus embodies divine love, we need to look at the context for today’s reading.  It takes place at the Passover meal in the Upper Room on Maundy Thursday.  During the supper, Jesus gets up from the table, wraps himself in a towel, and washes the feet of those present.  This is a lowly task normally performed by a servant and certainly never by a master or rabbi. 

It is a kind of enacted parable.  And like any parable, its meaning and message are hardly static.  For example, the Parable of the Good Samaritan’s teaching in not at all limited to what a Christian should do if he or she encounters a wounded victim while travelling by foot on the Wadi Qelt, the winding dry gulch which leads from Jerusalem to Jericho.  If the teaching of a parable was confined only to the exact elements of the story, it would be rendered practically useless.  The power of a parable lies in its ability to speak to a multitude of different situations we encounter on a regular basis.  Parables are intended for application, make us work for discernment, and often drive us to prayer for guidance.

Jesus’ example of foot washing is like this.  It is about so much more than an ancient ritual, an act of hygiene, or even a display of hospitality.  It is a demonstration of Jesus’ love, which is nothing less than God’s nature revealed in human flesh.  If I, in this sermon, attempted to spell out for you exactly what the foot washing means for you, I would be locking it into something like a check-list – akin to saying “Do A, B, and C and you will be a good Christian.”  It is more like a filter on a camera lens which shapes the way a photographer sees a subject, setting, or image.  You honor Jesus’ act by looking through it as you engage life and loved ones and ask “What would foot washing look like in this specific moment or situation?”     

There is more to Christianity than embracing a certain ethic or moral posture.  Jesus’ main criticism of the pharisees seems to have been while they often did the right thing, their heart was not in it.  Their actions could be construed as loving, yet they emanated from a sense of duty and were not an actual expression of love.  They did the right thing, but their motivation soured its taste. 

There is a mystical element to our faith.  We sense the need to invite Christ’s love to live in us.  Short of this kind of possession, all the good we seek to do may become little more than an obligation and, if it becomes an obligation, eventually it will become a burden.  A good prayer each morning might go something like this:

Fill me, O Lord, with your love.  Fill me to overflowing so that today I might love others as you have loved me.  Amen.