Monday, August 31, 2015

Pots and Pans, and Dirty Hands, Oh My!



A boy is selling fish on a corner and to get his customers’ attention, he is yelling, “Dam fish for sale!  Get your dam fish here!”  A pastor approaches and asks, “Why are you calling them ‘dam fish?’”  The boy responds, “Because I caught them at the local dam.”  The pastor buys a couple fish, takes them home to his wife, and asks her to cook the dam fish.  The wife is surprised, “I’ve never heard you talk like before.”  So he tells her about the story about the boy.  At the dinner table, the pastor asks his wife to pass the dam fish and takes a bite.  The wife asks, “How are your dam fish?” “Why this is the best dam fish I’ve ever tasted,” he replies.  Their teenage son, observing all of this is quite perplexed and says, “I don’t know what has gotten into the two of you, but will someone please pass me damned potatoes!”

There is a growing sentiment that religion is ruining our world.  All the ammunition you need to make such an argument is right there on the evening news.  Rabbi Harold Kushner, one of the best known Jewish authors of our time, says this:  The problem today is not religion.  Life is the problem.  Religion is the answer.  Religion, he says, can teach us how to find the hidden rewards of holiness in the world, and how to cope with life’s uncertainties and disappointments.  He contends that true religion shows us the most direct path to being authentically human.

This, I think, is what Moses was getting at in today’s first reading.  He says that if God’s people follow God’s commands then others will look upon their example of living and see that it is rooted in wisdom and understanding.  The commandments that Moses delivered are called the ‘Torah,’ a word which is often mistranslated as ‘law’, but a more accurate rendering is ‘teaching’ because it is God’s gift to all people so that we will know how to live.   Maybe it would be better to call them the Teaching Commandments because they show us how to love God, nurture our spiritual nature, revere life and all created things, treat others with dignity, value fidelity in primary relationships, tell the truth, and respect the rights and properties of others.  God intends for these teachings to open up life in all its fullness.

Kushner writes of his own faith tradition that it is meant “to convey a sense of exuberance to life, a readiness to enjoy the pleasures of the world.  It removes from wine [for example] the taint of sin and self-indulgence and invites us to look at all God has created and find it good.” 

There is an old sage that suggests some day every one of us will have to give an account for all the good things God created which we refused to enjoy.   This is what religion is meant to be like – a wise and understanding teaching that points the way to genuine living – but it can easily disintegrate into a collection of irrelevant customs and unconnected prohibitions stemming from ancient times. 

This is exactly what Jesus encountered in today’s reading from the Gospel.  Religious leaders confront him because they have grown accustomed to wringing the life out of life.  They complain that his followers fail to observe suffocating rituals.  You can almost picture them walking arm-in-arm with worried looks on their faces as they say over and over again, “Pots and pans and dirty hands, oh my!  Can you imagine how frustrated Jesus must have been with them?  Is it any wonder that a central feature of his proclamation is “I have come that you might have life and have it abundantly.  We thirst, we pant, we long for religion that points the way to life. 

But this was the farthest thing from the minds of Jesus’ critics.  They had lost their bearings and transformed religion from being the answer to life to being at odds with life.  Have you ever known someone who does this?  Have you ever been in a church like this?  Probably not for long!  If we are honest with ourselves we will admit there are times when we ourselves have been a wet blanket on the flame of life.  It is so easy to fall into this trap. 

I remember reading Garrison Keiler’s book Lake Wobegon Days where he traces the history of all the Baptists churches in his mythical town.  Second Baptist split off from First Baptist over whether believers would be raptured into heaven before or after the great tribulation.  Third Baptist split off of Second Baptist over ladies wearing pants suits to church instead of dresses.  The True Baptist Church had its origins in a dispute that erupted at a Third Baptist pot-luck supper.  It seems that two families brought he exact same dish, prompting cries of recipe stealing and other ugly accusations.  There were several other Baptist splits in town, but you get the idea.  It is hard to find much wisdom and understanding in such disputes.  So often these differences are little more than pots and pans and dirty hands, oh my!

There is a saying in the Episcopal Church that we seek to major in the majors and minor in the minors.  This is to say we seek to make important the things that are important while not getting sidetracked by those things that are unimportant.  A 17th century English theologian by the name of Richard Hooker labeled what was unimportant as being ‘things indifferent.’  If it makes no difference whether you do something one way or the other, then by all means don’t treat it as if it is a matter of ultimate concern.  His famous phrase that guides the churches of the Anglican Communion is “unity in the essentials, latitude in the non-essentials, and charity in all things.”   

Jesus proclaims that religion is about finding answers to the problems of life and He makes the bold claim that he himself is the answer.  His critics complain about pots and pans and dirty hands.  Each of us must decide for ourselves what religion is meant to be.  Kushner says, “Religion should open the doors to passion, to holiness, to deepening of life’s joys, and to a fearless confrontation with life’s sorrows.”  Jesus, like Kushner, was a Jew and doesn’t this sound a lot like the religion he offers to us in himself?  Doesn’t this sound like a wise and understanding way to live life?

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