Tuesday, February 18, 2025

Empathy as Seeing

 

Luke 6:17-26

Epiphany 6 / Year C

Jesus said,

Blessed are the poor.

Blessed are the hungry.

Blessed are those who weep.

Blessed are those who are hated and persecuted on my account.

Woe to those who are rich.

Woe to those who are full now.

Woe to those who are laughing.

Woe to those of whom all speak well.

Unlike the 10 Commandments, as best as I can tell, no person, group, or organization is lobbying to have these words put on display in classrooms or courthouses… and for good reason.  If you take them at face value, they are enormously disconcerting because, if we are honest with ourselves, the lifestyle most of us enjoy in this world means we fall under the category of the woes.

Because Jesus’ teachings here makes us uncomfortable, we tend to do one of two things with them (or perhaps both).  Either we tell ourselves Jesus is not referring to us or we attempt to soften the bluntness of what he says.  To do the first, we might posit other people have more money than we do, eat better than we do, and are happier than we are, and we have our fair share of pain and sorrow in life.  To do the second we need look no farther than the Gospel of Matthew.  His account has Jesus saying “Blessed are the poor in spirit” and “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,” while all together omitting the corresponding woes.   

Yet Luke, which we read from this morning, weaves God’s purpose and Jesus’ teachings in a way with which we must wrestle.  When the angel Gabriel tells Mary she will give birth to God’s child, she responds by saying (in part) this:


God has shown the strength of his arm,
he has scattered the proud in their conceit.

He has cast down the mighty from their thrones,
and has lifted up the lowly.

He has filled the hungry with good things,
and the rich he has sent away empty.

Luke records Jesus’ parable of The Rich man and Lazarus (16:19-31) where a rich man continually ignores the pleas of a poor, starving beggar, even as he himself lives in comfort and dines sumptuously every day.  Yet in the end, Jesus says, the two find their stations reversed in the next life.

This parable gives us an excellent entry point for the teaching we hear this morning.  The rich man deserves woe, not because he is rich, but because he does not ‘see’ Lazarus.  He has made the poor beggar invisible.  Those times he is aware of him, no doubt he dehumanizes him, perhaps even contending his misfortune is a punishment of his own making.  He considers not Lazarus’ pain, only how his mere existence is an inconvenience to him.  The rich man no longer sees Lazarus as a person.  If he sees him, he only sees him only as a thing. 

Those who are blessed, in Jesus’ estimation, are not so because there is something inherently virtuous in poverty, hunger, sadness, or being hated.  They are blessed because he sees them, values them, understands them, identifies with them, and ultimately loves them. 

Today we would say Jesus has empathy with them.  Unlike sympathy, which involves feeling sorry for the misfortunes another experiences, empathy involves the ability to do several things:

·    To feel what the other is feeling (like when we blush when we see another person being embarrassed).

·    To understand why another person thinks or feels the way they do (to be able to grasp the world from their perspective).

· To discern the emotions driving another person and to respond appropriately.

·    To desire to do what is within one’s power to improve the lot of another person.

·    To recognize how our own words and actions affect people different from us.

The rich man in the parable, lacking all of these qualities, is completely indifferent.  Jesus says woe will come to such a person. 

If you want to know what the opposite of empathy looks and sounds like, turn on any cable news show and you will find people screaming to be heard as they labor to discredit and demonize those who do not think as they do.  It is a 24/7/365 contest to prove they are right and the other is wrong, never once seeking to learn what makes the other person tick.  Woe to us when we saturate ourselves deeply into this worldview of Me & Mine vs. Them & Theirs.

The Westminster Confession is a doctrine of faith drawn up by an English assembly in 1646.  One section addresses God’s Impassibility, the belief God’s essential nature and being cannot be altered or influenced by, among other things, emotions.  In the language of the confession, God is “without parts or passions.”

This implies God is wholly unlike us; not given to fluctuation or feeling.  Given this, why do we even bother to come here to worship, to pray, to pour out our hearts?  Why?  Because Jesus demonstrates God sees us.  Jesus reminds us God is empathetic, able to be as we are, able to join our place and state, able to see things from our perspective, and able and willing to respond. 

We seek to be empathetic because God empathizes with us.  We seek to see others for who they are, as they are, because God sees us for who we are, as we are.  God looks upon us and blesses us, therefore we are called to look upon others and be a blessing unto them.