Monday, March 24, 2025

Finding God in a Game of Paper, Rock, and Scissors

 


Exodus 3:1-15

Lent 3 / Year C

Lindsey Godwin, a college professor, writes about a family vacation at the Grand Canyon.  After the adventure was over, she asked her children about their favorite memory from the trip, supposing it might be standing on the edge of an awe-inspiring natural wonder or stargazing a night sky unpolluted by human light.  But no, their highlight moment was winning a stuffed monkey from a claw game at a hotel arcade.  After all the hours of planning, enduring the inevitable snafus which come up while travelling, and paying for it all, Godwin says she had hoped for something more impactful than this.

As a parent, I have been there.  I suspect you have too.  Still, I can relate to her children because of my experience on our pilgrimage on the Portuguese Way of the Camino.  At one point I encountered a local family enjoying a walk together on a beautiful day.  Even though I didn’t speak their language I recognized two of the boys were playing a game of Paper, Rock, and Scissors.  I can’t remember how I communicated it, but somehow I let on I knew the game and wanted to play.  And so it began: Paper, Rock, Scissors – shoot.  And just that quickly I won.  I can’t even begin to tell you how disheartened the little boy was.  Apparently, he enjoyed winning much more than I enjoy besting a small child at anything.  Now, I am not in the habit of asking God for miracles, but at that moment I prayed, “Please, please, please, dear sweet little baby Jesus, humble and mild, if you can hear me, I only ask one thing: don’t let me win the next game.”  Round 2: Paper, Rock, Scissors – shoot.  I shot paper while he had scissors.  I can still visualize his celebration dance and unvarnished joy and I remember how it reaffirmed my belief in the Nicene Creed and all things orthodox.

The Paper, Rock, Scissors Champion of the Camino

Like the stuffed animal from the claw game, why is this one of my most profound memories of that pilgrimage?  If the trip’s brochure would have advertised this to be the zenith of my experience, I never would have signed up.  And yet, it is one of my most cherished, enduring memories.

Graham says it is an example of what psychologists refer to as the “peak-end rule.”  It suggests we tend not to remember the totality of a grand undertaking but focus more on the peak moments.  But here is the catch, these peak moments typically are not the pinnacle, majestic, experiences, but ordinary moments you notice and savor.  Graham writes, “Research… on well-being… shows that happiness isn’t found in once-in-a-lifetime experiences, but in small, meaningful moments.”  

All of this may seem counter to today’s first reading from the Book of Exodus.  Moses is on Mt. Horeb and he is in the midst of doing a very ordinary thing (tending to his flock of sheep) at a most ordinary location (a non-descript mountain on the Saini Peninsula whose main distinguishing feature seems to be its parched landscape - the word horeb means ‘very dry’).  So, in this sense, he is merely tending to the daily round when the most extraordinary thing happens.  God becomes manifest to him in a bush on fire yet not consumed by the flame.  It is perhaps the single best-known encounter between a human and the Divine in all of scripture.  It truly is a peak experience. 

You might think it is so overwhelming Moses can do nothing other than to be drawn into it, but the text tells us he has to look aside from what he is doing in order to see the bush and then must decide to investigate it.  It is a small detail, yet it reminds us how Moses, like all pilgrims, is open to discerning God’s presence in mundane moments and times.  Who knows how many other shepherds had passed by this site yet failed to apprehend in it what Moses discerns.            

Do you know the story of St. Martin of Tours?  He grows up in the 4th century during a time when Christianity has become a legal religion, but hardly embraced by Rome’s ruling elite class.  Martin, being the son of a veteran officer, is required to join a cavalry at the age of 15 and three years later is sent to a select unit assigned to protect the emperor.  At some point during this period in his life, Martin decides to be baptized.  While still in his training period, as he is riding into the French city of Amiens, he comes upon a scantily clad beggar.  Without hesitation, Martin cuts his military cloak in two, giving one half to the beggar to keep him warm.  That night, he dreams Jesus, wearing the beggar’s cloak, is telling angels how Martin had given it to him.  What begins as a simple act of kindness and compassion has become an example which continues to inspire the faithful to seek and serve Christ in all persons.

When you understand your life to be a pilgrimage, you become especially attentive to the ordinary moments of life, expecting them to be extraordinary opportunities to find joy and meaning in our life.  And while you may never come across a burning bush like Moses did, each day is filled with God’s presence, even in something as ordinary as a game of Paper, Rock, and Scissors.