Thursday, March 6, 2025

Packing for Lent

 

Ash Wednesday / Year C

Our Lenten theme this year is ‘Personal Pilgrimages.’  My sermons will expound on this motif and a variety of parishioners are going to share a trip or experience they have had which meant much to them, touched them, and in meaningful ways is still present to them.  In all of this, I hope we can discover how the most ordinary journey can be transformed into a pilgrimage, a holy experience.

Pilgrimage is not a novel theme I came up with for Lent.  For centuries the faithful have viewed these 40 days as walking with Jesus as he journeys to Jerusalem and the Cross.  In it we see a template for our own pilgrimage.  And when I mark you with the ashes, saying the words “Remember you are dust and to dust you shall return,” I do not do so intending to be morbid.  Rather, I am encouraging you to view your life as being a pilgrimage that begins with God, goes forward with God, and ends in God.  This perspective has the power to be life-changing.

Along with colleagues and friends, I have made three pilgrimages now.  Prior to each, we have come together for a pilgrim’s mass and the Blessing of the Backpacks.  My friend Dale preached at the first service and he told a story which has stayed with me.  It seems he and his wife Doris (the planners of our trip) approach the task of packing for it like in very different ways. 

At least two months before the departure, Doris converts a spare bedroom into a staging area.  On the bed she begins to lay out the various things she thinks she will need.  A lot of discernment goes into her master plan: What might the weather be like?  Which outfits can be swapped in what ways in order to have something new to wear to dinner each night?  How much does it weigh (an especially important question for the things you will carry on your back)?  Is it really necessary?  What ultimately will make the trip changes many, many times as she deliberates what she really needs and what can be left behind.  Dale, on the other hand, pulls out a suitcase the day before the flight and, without much thought as to the specifics, throws into it a haphazard variety of shirts, pants, socks, and hiking paraphernalia.  His packing process takes about fifteen minutes.  Hers, even after weeks of deliberation, still takes the better part of two to three days.

There is something in this to guide us as we begin out Lenten pilgrimage.  If life is a journey, Lent affords us the opportunity to pause and reflect on what we are carrying that is no longer necessary.  I am not talking specifically about the stuff you may have stuffed away in your attic, garage, and storage facility, although it might be a good spiritual exercise to begin to rid your life of clutter.  I refer to the ‘baggage’ which weights you down and holds you back. 

In a few moments, after receiving the ashes, we will pray the Litany of Penitence.  As we go forward on our Lenten pilgrimage, think of it as a list of things you need to leave behind.  It is a long list – too long to attack all at once.  Spend some time with it and focus on one or two things you no longer want to carry; as things you know you should carry no longer.  If you commit to trying harder on your own, most likely you will fail.  In Sunday’s sermon I want to focus on the resources God provides for us as we walk the pilgrim’s way, considering the ready help provided to us which far surpasses what we can muster on our own.

And speaking of personal mustering, did you know the record for the longest time holding your breath underwater ‘voluntarily’ (and I don’t know if this surpasses or lags behind the record for doing it involuntarily) is held by Budimir Sobat.  On March 27, 2021, the Croatian native went without breathing for an astonishing 24 minutes and 37.36 seconds (and yes, those hundredths of seconds matter in matters like this because is a competitive sport and out there somewhere, someone is dreaming of breaking Bud’s mark).

Let me suggest this is not a good image for what a Lenten discipline should look like or feel.  The goal is not to give up something which is the spiritual equivalent holding your breath until Easter Sunday before pantingly returning to, say, gorging yourself on chocolates.

I think a better image to hold as you approach Lent is that of a pilgrimage.  And while a pilgrimage has a holy destination, the real power for transformation lies in the journey itself, not the journey’s end.  What happens along the way has a greater impact than what happens at the end. 

If I were to direct you to give up something really challenging for Lent or if I said, “If you give up something that doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t count”, I would be doing you a disservice.  Give up what distracts you from giving yourself fully to your Lenten pilgrimage.  When I undertook my pilgrimages I intentionally decided not to bring headphones because I wanted to be present to the sounds of the journey.  I reasoned on pilgrimage headphones are to hearing what a blindfold is to sight.  What are the headphones of your Lenten pilgrimage?

One of the things I am leaving behind this Lent is chocolate.  You all have been overly generous in giving me chocolate chip cookies, especially around Christmas, and I have supplemented your kindness in a variety of other delightful ways.  Now my body craves chocolate throughout the day.  On our physical pilgrimages we were encouraged to use the ache of sore feet as a call to focus on the real intention of the journey.  Many people elect to give up something like chocolate because the pangs and cravings can serve as a way to call them back to the reason they are undertaking the pilgrimage in the first place. 

On this day when we begin our Lenten journey, I ask you to consider what you need to leave behind as you set out.  And I pray these next forty days will be transformative in ways small and great.  And while we look forward to the day of Easter, dreaming of flowering the Cross and our church looking joyous decorated with an array of lilies, don’t forget to embrace each day of the journey, believing it will change and shape in ways which will stay with you throughout your life.